DON’T WORRY! You have the ability to make changes, no matter
what you’re doing, one microscopic step
at a time. The first thing you need to do is be honest
with yourself.
Ask yourself if you love what you’re
doing?
If you “like” your job and don’t
feel excited about it, then you’re settling
for less than what is possible for you
to experience in life.
You may not even know that you
can be passionate about your work. Once you understand this, it’s up to you to
begin the journey of exploring how you
can make a change. Finding the support you need to walk through
this journey and create a vision is essential.
Knowing you are not alone, that
someone is there to talk with, answer
questions, and allowing yourself to be
vulnerable is the greatest gift you can
give yourself.
You will open up to new possibilities,
a new way of creating and cultivating
personal effectiveness.
Talking to another person is also important
because many times we don’t see past our
emotions and beliefs.
You need to express your negative
emotions such as, “I don’t want to change,”
“I’m too old to change,” It only happens
to other people,” or “I can’t do it.” These are self-imposed images and beliefs about life that you either
consciously or unconsciously chose to
help you deal with your circumstances.
It worked for a time and it doesn’t
serve you anymore.
It is also imperative that you stay focused
on your goals and remember that life does
not have to be all or nothing.
You will eventually find the balance
you need to be responsible and fulfilled. It also takes patience. This can be quite a challenge because we usually
want our lives to change quickly.
Sometimes it does, but you are
probably better off to make transitions
slowly.
If you are not aligned with the
changes that take place on an emotional,
mental, physical and spiritual level,
it can backfire and you will sabotage
your positive intention to create abundance.
You need to be conscious of how
you relate to yourself along the way because
your new images about life will begin
to integrate on a cellular level.
You change the intention from the
negative, “but I need the money and I’m
not going to take any risks,” to the positive,
“I value myself. I’m willing to explore new possibilities. I deserve personal and financial fulfillment.”
Once you make this commitment,
life begins to present new opportunities
from which you create a new reality, a
new experience and a new sense of purpose
and self-empowerment.
Copyright © Judith Gruber 2000
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